What Is Unconditional Love

There is a state that stands above familiar feelings and attachments. It is unconditional love. To understand whether you possess this gift, test your feelings by the formula of “Three Yeses and Three Nos.”

Three “YES”: what this love is built from

1. Happiness for the other.
You sincerely rejoice when things are good for him. Your inner state depends not on what he has done for you, but on the fact that he himself is happy in that moment.

2. Deep acceptance.
You love the person in his very essence. Not for appearance, money, or character, but for who he is in the deepest layer of his soul, with all his cracks and all his light.

3. Absolute sincerity.
There is no falsehood in your feelings and no performance “for an audience.” This is love without masks, honest before yourself and before him.

Three “NO”: what does not exist in this love

1. Not to hold back.
True love does not lock someone up. If a person would be better off without you, you find the strength to let him go. His well-being matters to you more than your desire to possess him.

2. Not to fear loss.
Your world does not collapse at the thought that he may leave. It is enough for you to know that he simply lives on this planet and that he is happy — even if not with you.

3. Not to try to change.
You do not work on his “improvement” and do not try to fit him to your ideal. You accept his present version as final and complete.

Lilith’s definition of Unconditional Love

Unconditional love, in Lilith’s system of coordinates, is not merely a feeling, but the highest point of spiritual manifestation and the apex of the subjecthood of the human spirit. This state is the exceptional prerogative of the highest-frequency representatives of the light forces embodied on Earth.

And yes, honesty is necessary here... Unconditional Love is the element and contour of Eve.

For Lilith, such love is an act of ultimate illumination, in which the Subject becomes an autonomous source of radiance, needing neither a reciprocal transaction nor energetic nourishment from the object. It is a state of the absolute purity of the Vessel, one that transmits creative force into the world without distortion by selfish attachments.